How many times have you been hugged today? Chances are even if you’re lucky enough to have been enveloped in the arms of someone you love, you still haven’t been hugged enough. That’s because the more embraces you have, the better it is for your health. Eight, in fact, is ideal. Here’s why:
Hugs are a power boost for our immune system. They decrease stress levels, help fight fatigue, promote well-being, lower blood pressure, improve our cardiovascular system and benefit aging muscles. Plus, there is nothing like a hug to make you feel up when you are down or safe when you are searching.
The science behind the embrace helping to heal both your head and your heart can be summed up in one word: oxytocin. Oxytocin is a chemical that’s released from your brain during the act of hugging, breast-feeding and, yes, sex. Think about the billions of dollars spent on self-help books, vitamins and little blue pills when one of nature’s most potent resources is free and can be plentiful! A 20-second hug, multiple times during the day (as I mentioned earlier, eight is best), is all it takes.
The challenge is to actually do it. Here are some suggestions to get your daily doses in.
1) Unplug. Make eye contact and just go for it.
2) Pay attention. Watch how others are feeling. We get so caught up in our own issues that we miss cues from people that we care about showing us they need to be held.
3) Keep count. When you track and measure a goal, it increases your likelihood of obtaining it.
4) Don’t be shy. If you have a teenager who avoids embraces, do it anyway.
5) Draw everyone in. Get your whole family involved. Encourage group hugs.
6) Press the men. Many dads stop demonstrating affection to their sons as they get older. Don’t let that be the case in your house.
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