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Procrastination

7 Ways to Get Things Done

1. Time yourself. "People say, 'Oh, this is going to take an hour and I just don't have an hour right now.' So they don't even start," says productivity expert Laura Stack, author of Find More Time (Random House). Reality check: You may never get that full hour. "Life happens in what I call 'chunky time.' You might get 5 minutes here or 10 minutes there," Stack says. "So if I have 10 minutes before a meeting, I'll get started on a task, even if I know it will take more time to finish."

It's also important to let go of the idea that someday you'll be "in the mood" to tackle the tough stuff. Repeat after me, "It's not going to happen." Set a kitchen timer for five or 10 minutes. Work on the dreaded task until the timer goes off. That's enough time to take a small first step—open a file, look up a phone number, find a missing document. And chances are you'll have enough momentum to keep going. If you're truly miserable, though, stop for the day and go back to it tomorrow for another few minutes. (Jot your last thought on a sticky so you can pick up where you left off.) Eventually, one chunk at a time, you will finish the job!

2. Make a choice."People who procrastinate tend to think in terms of 'have to,'" says Fiore. "But that automatically means you don't want to, that you're a victim." Replacing "I have to" with "I choose to" puts you in charge of your time. "By choosing to face something uncomfortable, you get rid of the ambivalence associated with things you have to do but don't want to do," Fiore explains. With your mind cleared because you're not feeling helpless and controlled, it's easier to face your task in the present rather than relegate it to the future. So forget "I have to start exercising" and tell yourself "I choose to walk for 20 minutes today on my lunch hour."

3. Learn to say no. "Over-doers generally have difficulty saying 'no' because they want to please people," says Sapadin. Unfortunately, the result is often a to-do list so overwhelming that you can't possibly get to everything on it. So you put off things that are important to you in favor of fulfilling promises to family members, friends, and coworkers.

It's far better to decline excess requests up front. "You can do it graciously. It doesn't make you a selfish person," says Sapadin. "And saying no to your children sometimes can be extremely healthy for them, because too many kids today feel entitled to whatever they want." In fact, doing less can also benefit the other adults in your life by encouraging them to be more independent and self-reliant.

4. Make a few more lists. It seems counterintuitive: Won't more lists make you feel even more overwhelmed and stuck? Actually, the opposite is often true. "If you have only one list with 87 things on it, you feel like a failure at the end of the day," says Stack. "If you add up all the time for those tasks, it's completely unrealistic." Her solution is to keep one master list as a memory device so that low-priority and big-picture items don't clutter your daily list. Use the master each night to make the next day's action plan, picking no more than five priority tasks that are doable in a day. Highlight one or two tasks that you absolutely must finish and in the morning tackle those first. The sense of accomplishment will speed you through your day. Keep your main list out of sight and out of mind except when you're referring to it.

5. Schedule guilt-free downtime. Hold on—are we giving you permission to procrastinate? Not exactly. While counseling students at the University of California, Berkeley, Fiore discovered something surprising. "The people who scheduled downtime got more done than the ones who just had an open calendar and felt like they were always suffering, always working," he says. "Scheduled, guilt-free play actually makes you more productive and more efficient." Why? When you plan things like a half hour with a juicy novel, a craft project, or a phone chat with a friend, you give yourself permission to fully enjoy it. Without energy-depleting guilt, you're able to recharge and come back to your work refreshed.

6. Recruit a ruthless friend. Have someone to check in with as you're moving toward a goal. "She has to be someone who won't let you get away with things," says Stack. "It's her job to bug you about your progress." Schedule regular chats; each time tell her exactly what you plan to accomplish by your next meeting. Be sure that your goal is specific and measurable. Instead of pledging to start looking for a new job, for example, say you'll finish updating your resume so she can look it over.

7. Give yourself rewards. Whenever you check off a task—no matter how small—give yourself a little treat. You could even plan your rewards by writing them next to the items on your to-do list. You order the paint for the front steps and you can read a few chapters of a novel. You finally schedule your ob-gyn appointment and you get to e-mail a friend to set up a lunch date. If you do nothing else, at least take time to sit back, close your eyes, and enjoy that wonderful feeling of accomplishment that completing even a tiny task can bring. It might just give you the inspiration you need to keep chipping away at the one big thing on your list that really matters to you.

 

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