How to Get Free Stuff and Avoid Scams

Why do so many complimentary offers come with a price tag? Here's how not to get swindled by samples.

You've heard it before: The best things in life are free. There's nothing like walking into a store and being handed a trial size of a new product. (And those free iTunes downloads you can get at Starbucks? Score!) Do a quick Google search for "freebies" and you'll be buried in an avalanche of web-sites offering product samples and coupons. But it turns out that "free" is a relative term—unless you don't mind completing four surveys and signing up for six trial offers to get your prize. And did we mention that your e-mail address is usually sold to every spammer with a computer? Thanks for playing.

But there are plenty of ways to cash in on complimentary offers without signing your life away or ending up on an annoying junk e-mail list. Our smart strategies will help you steer clear of the hidden costs.

DON'T: Waste your time filling out copious forms.

We've all been there—you click on a link for a sample of body wash and suddenly you're revealing your firstborn's astrological sign and joining a movie club to qualify for the "free" offer. (Get three movies for just $1.99 each! Then pay $19.95 for five more, plus shipping and handling!) The best freebie deals require your name and address, period. The worst ones make you sign up with rewards partners who want a commitment to a trial offer that will cost you money if you're not paying attention. Yes, it's usually possible to cancel those services within 30 days and pay nothing. But you're more likely to forget you ever signed up before you see the charge on your credit card bill and end up shelling out at least the first month's fee. If you have the patience to track all those offers and cancel them, then the world is your oyster. But if you have better things to do (and I'm sure you do), there are smarter ways to snag complimentary deals.

DO: Go to the manufacturer's website directly.

What's the best place to find legitimate free samples of Procter & Gamble products? (Hint: It's not P&G actually has a consumer prod-ucts site,, where you can register for samples and discounts as they be-come available. In general, be cautious about freebies offered by sites that aren't directly connected to the manufacturer. "If a link is not the actual Web page of the product, I bypass it," says Debbie, 51, a mom of three in Massachusetts. "But once on a mailing list, you'll get lots of coupons and trial products," she says. Love John Frieda hair products? Go to and sign up to receive updates. While you can't usually request a sample of your favorite product, you might get to try something you end up liking even better.

Legit Freebie Sites
There are plenty of sample sites that are for real. Our favorites:


DON'T: Give out your digits.

Never provide your credit card information or Social Security number. "It definitely puts you at risk of getting your identity stolen," says Wendi Caetta, owner of If it's free, it shouldn't require payment, which means the site doesn't need your financial details. Note: There are legitimate sites that may offer something free provided you sign up for trial offers from sponsor companies. For instance, you may be able to score a sample of a cereal bar, but only if you sign up for a credit monitoring service and a weight-loss product trial—and those offers can require a credit card. But this goes back to our first rule: If you have to cancel something within 30 days to prevent spending money, it's generally not worth your time.

DO: Be realistic.

If it looks too good to be true, it probably is. A trial-size shampoo? Plausible. A week's vacation in Orlando? Come on. Steer clear of pages with obvious typos in the text, grammatical errors and limited info. Does the offer list a phone number? Call it. "Sites will trick you by listing random numbers from the phone book," Caetta says. "Sometimes the number is no longer in service, or it may be a residential number and the person on the other end of the line has no idea what you're talking about. That happens more than you think."

DON'T: Enter your everyday e-mail address.

Even if you sign up only for legitimate offers, you're still releasing your e-mail address into the wild. Keep your freebie correspondence separate by establishing a special address that you use only for those offers, such as YourNameJunkMail Hint: If you create a Gmail address, you can forward messages (for free) to your main e-mail account, then filter those messages into a folder. That way you can always delete the second account if it starts getting too much spam. Your inbox will thank you.

DON'T: Forget about letter writing.

We know: If it doesn't have an "e" in front of it, you haven't done it in years. But a well-written, snail-mail letter to a manufacturer's consumer affairs department stating you love their products and are interested in samples and coupons can make your request stand out. "Go to the store with a little spiral notebook," says Dan Barnes, author of Absolutely Free! (Trafford), a guide to requesting and receiving products and coupons. "Look at the packaging of items you like and write down the name and address of the company." One stamp could reap rewards for years.

"I've saved thousands."

When Michelle Bank was a stay-at-home mom, she became obsessed with coupons and freebies. "If I sent you a picture of my closet, you'd probably think I'm crazy," says the 37-year-old mother of two daughters. Over the years she's gotten free shampoo, soap, toothpaste, dental floss, deodorant, shaving cream—the list goes on and on. Today the Illinois special ed teacher estimates that she saves $1,100 a month by combining coupons and free offers. She's been so successful that she's even started her own blog,, where she posts her latest freebie finds. "People don't believe me when I tell them I went from spending $1,300 a month to $200 a month," she says. "It's amazing."

Safety First

Your kids will click on anything, and the word "free" is awfully tempting. To protect your computer from virsues, tell kids not to open e-mails from people they don't know, and supervise them when they're surfing. "It's like keeping an eye on your children when they're playing outside," says Renee Chronister, owner of Parameter Security, a firm that helps companies test their network safety. In addition to putting the computer in a common area, teach your kids not to click on ads or strange websites. And since most blocking applications are geared toward porn and profanity, your best defense is good security software.

Look before you leap

  • Scrutinize the URL before clicking. "Sometimes just visiting a website—even without clicking on anything—can expose you to malicious programs and scripts," says Renee Chronister of Parameter Security. A virus could crash your system.
  • A seemingly harmless site may have entry points for danger. "Facebook has a lot of those freebie ads on the right-hand side," Chronister says. "Some of those are ploys that have codes embedded in them. Don't click." A sketchy site could steal your personal info.
  • Invest in security software that alerts you when a site isn't safe or if something's trying to access your hard drive. It's not foolproof, but it's better than leaving the door open. A good free option: Avast ( Also consider an anti-spyware program like Spybot Search & Destroy (

Originally published in the October 17, 2010 issue of Family Circle magazine.